His attitude and behaviour is a part of his personality, which could be at fault, roots of this fault lies in his upbringing, genes, life experiences, family environment etc. This requires good amount of analysis, coping strategies and corrective measure under the professional guidance. Kindly consult psychiatrist nearby or online .For this you might have to convince him by making him aware of his misbehavior, when he is in good mood. You also need to emphasis that this is for the benefit of your peaceful and long term marital relation. Just remember that you both have to go together for consultation his behavior cannot be improved by only one-sided efforts and that to from your side.