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Dr. Hansal Bhachech is a very popular author, columnist and psychiatrist of western India. His writings are simple, practical, reality oriented, to the point and witty.

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I’m a medical student and the guy with whom I’m in relationship has ditched me many times, cheated on me by sleeping with another girl. He took great care of me and pampers me like a kid. He never crossed his limits with me as in physicality now he’s ex whom he was dating for 2yrs is back. She wants to get married to him and now he’s unsure about me. Our family are involved and they are planning for an engagement next month. I don’t have the guts to tell my parents anything nor do I want to leave him. I really love him. Please help me.

More important than you love him is whether he loves you! So, make sure he loves you and prefers you over his ex. If this is not the case then prepare yourself for breakup because your relationship with him may not prove worth and bring happiness on long run.

I am a muslim boy with age 26 and i love a hindu girl of age 22. She loves me too. We both want to get married but my parents are against this. She is ready to convert to muslim religion. My problem is that how can I convince my parents and what to do as I love my parents very much. PLEASE SUGGEST.
You need to know that why your parents are opposing? Try to understand their perspective and then you can put your views to them. If you do not have ease of open communication with them then you have to take help of someone who can put up your feelings to them. Most of the time parents act in best interest of their child, you only need to understand what it is, with open mind!
However, I have always said in such type of cases, if you would have known beforehand that your parents would not agree to such relationship you should have talk to them before progressing. Most of the time this type of situations end up in the mess

Thank you so much for your timely help through e-consultation. Your e-consultation service is a blessing for people like us who stays away from our country and finding really tough to explain our problems to foreign doctors. Your suggestions were
Respected Dr. Bhachech
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