Sir, I want to know the things about my husband. We got married 11years back. He is very fond of porn’s. When I am at home he pretends like not more interested in all but in my absence he watches. And the fact is when I am at home I never stop him to watch porn’s sometime I watch with him and sometime I sleep and he watches but I don’t stop him to watch, as we watch at night after our kids sleep. But this time when I was away from home for 6 days he watched in morning before going to office afternoon in lunch and evening after coming back from office and night also. And every time he watched for 2 to 3 hours. I came to know this by the history of net. When I was away he pretended on the phone like he is very tired and going to sleep by 11 o clock. But I came to know he watched it till 3 o clock. When I came to know this I felt very bad why he had been addicted like this. When I told him about this he fought with me like anything and started abusing me and said you should not interfere in my private life. This thing he also used to do before 6 yrs back, he told me to take the kids to the park and play with them and he watched porn’s. But after knowing this we fought and he said he will never watch like this and broke all cds. While we have very good sex relationship and have as much as possible. But after this incident I feel he is more interested in porn’s.

This is a matter of his preference for getting sexual pleasure. He prefers to see porn and it has nothing to do with your sexual life, good or bad. He is habituated and like all other habit, he enjoys doing that. It requires his motivation to come out of this habit and counseling by professional.