Sir, I m a BE graduate and trying for a job for last 2 yrs. I am a reserved type. I m very depressed and I am not interested in any things. I am feeling happy to be alone, hear sad songs, cry a lot, and mostly I like others to feel for me. I m have fear talking with a group, feel shame of myself. However, all my concentration, feelings, affection are concentrated on a single person, who is my friends sister. We have a brother -sister relation. I m touched with her family. Here I should say u that I started hating my family when I get myself attached with my friend’s family and especially my sister( I consider my friend’s sister as my own sister) . My step- sister and myself have a good brother -sister relationship. We share a lot; have fun, shares family issues. As time goes on and on, I become really mad on her and I become over emotional and sentimental. If she is not talking for even a single day, I feel embarrassed and says to myself like ” u r unlucky, she is not your own sister, if so she would have talked. I m just a third -person. Gradually I too developed possessiveness. If she talks with some other friends and not with me, I feel for my self and cry. However, my affection started to grow deeper and deeper. If she doesn’t talk, nothing runs in my mind except her. Infect I used to talk with her all the time within my heart. Talking solo within heart. While watching movie, reading books every time I think about her. I feel a lot for her. At the same time, I feel myself that she is not my own sister and how nice it would be if I were her blood related. Recently, my affection and care towards her scared me a lot, as I once took her dress from her shelf and have a look. I started liking her belongings too, her dress, cell phone like that. I was too scary, so I narrated that incident to her. She too know me that, i m not normal and I should need divert my mind from her. She advised me a lot and asked me to stop feel for her and her family and concentrate on my life. She even told that, she wants to have just a friendly relation with me, not like a mad emotionally, sentimentally build relation. I owed her to do, but I m finding difficult to stop thinking about her. I want to maintain a pleasant friendly relation with her even and care her than anybody else. What is my problem doctor, how can I stay away from her, thinking about her all-time.? I m jobless for three long years and now I want to settle in my life and at the same time I want to maintain friendly relation with her. please advice, should I consult psychiatrist.