Sir, I got married before 5yrs. I have a kid also. My problem is I don’t want to have sexual intercourse with my husband. He was very disappointed. From the starting, only I don’t have much interest on that. Daily I used to scare for all the nights. I don’t want my husband to approach me for intercourse. Day by day, I am scaring very much for that. I am never allowing my husband to come near me for that. We are facing so much of problems and mi understandings between us. I discussed to some of my friends, they told me this distance also will be the problem, and they advised me to approach u. I don’t want to hurt my husband also. I should make my husband happy in that matter. What should I do? Please kindly help me and give me some solutions.

Lack of sexual desire is a multifactor problem. As you have this problem since beginning of your marital life, I think you require detailed analysis of your problem. Healthy sexual life is a base of happy married life so both of you should go to psychiatrist and discuss your problem. Alternatively you may try online counseling.