Sir, I am 21 year old boy. I have just completed engineering and searching for job now. I always read your articles. Now I am facing lots of problem in my life. I am little bit shy making first communication directly with gals. So, during college days I had very few girl friends and lots of boy friends. But I have lots of online girl friends in chatting and orkut. I feel safe in making online friendship with gals. My first Love was my classmate and she came in my life through orkut. That relationship lasted only for 1 month. She refused to accept me as her Lover and there was someone in her life too. That was a sad break up for me and I cried a lot during that time also suicidal feelings came to my mind at that time. It took me sometime to forget her. I never thought that my first love will be ended in this way. Then again I started chatting and making more online girlfriends. Then my 2nd girlfriend came, she was from another state. We loved each other very much but we never met each other. And after 2 months she also left me without any reason. I never found her online. In this way my 2nd Love story was ended. Then again I started searching for girlfriend online. Then I met my 3rd girlfriend she was from another district of my state. After meeting her I felt the true love. She was very caring and loving. We love each other very much. We decided to meet directly, once I get a job. She was also ready to marry me. It has been six months I found her online. There was not a single day, when we both were not talking over phone. But Sir last week my 3rd love story was ended because of a phone call. Last week her mother received a call and the caller said something wrong to her mother. But her caller Id and exchange call details shows it was my mobile number. I am 100% sure I have not made that call because when I checked my mobile call details that number was not present. Sir, why I will abuse her mother? I tried a lot to convince her, that I didn’t make that call. And it could be a misconnection or Mobile hacking. But she is not ready to listen to any explanation. She believes I have no respect for her parents and I am a big liar. And she doesn’t want to keep any relationship with me. Now she is not talking to me for a week. Sir, please tell me how I will convince her that I did not make that call? Is there any problem within me? Why my Love stories are so temporary? I feel somehow I have been changed since my 1st break up. Is that the root of all problems? Because of so many failures, now I have started taking any relationship lightly. “I feel if one goes then another will come”. Sometimes I think if my marriage will not be successful, then I will divorce my wife!! Frankly speaking, now I have started searching my 4th online girlfriend. But still some where within my heart, I feel the love for my 3rd girlfriend. I will surely accept my 3rd girlfriend, if she comes in my life. I love her very much. But if that does not happen, then I will search for another one.

Breakups are very casual in online relationships. Most of the people flirt rather than love. I think you were seriously involved but not girls. They might not be as serious as you were. And third girl may have really made story to go wind up relations with you. Do not generalize these experiences and look forward to have healthy relationship, real not virtual!!