I was married this year in April, my husband refused to marry just 3 days prior to our marriage as it was love marriage and his parents refused. We waited for 3 long years to get married. But since we are married, my husband has become someone else. We hardly have sex; he doesn’t even hug me or kiss me. We sleep on sides of the same bed, I have tried almost everything to attract him, spoken to him directly but nothing seems to work out… I have now started feeling attracted to other guys around what to do?

Reasons behind his disinterest may vary from physical to emotional, work related to environmental. It is difficult to put finger on any of them with the information you gave. However, you can openly discuss your feelings with him and may take professional help together.