He seems to be a greedy guy and for him money matters the most. The way he emphasizes and comments on your financial matters, it is quite evident. Moreover, he lacks respect for you. Apart from money matters, he must be having certain other issues with you. Try to figure out these issues and discuss with him showing your intention to strengthen your relationship. You should try to convince him that you are ready to leave your job but at the same time you want to work and support your family.