I have a relationship with a girl for last four years. She is 2 months younger to me. Our parents are not willing for our marriage at all due to intercast. We tried every thing even we tried to become friends only and forgot about our love. However, after few days again we make love to each other. So the problem is that now we are frustrated of our relationship because it is not coming to a good end (marriage). We can’t leave without each other. I have started feeling psychic and in depression. She is not willing to go against the family; neither has she wanted to leave me.

This is a real ambivalent situation. Both of you need to decide on one thing and then stick to it. You should not keep this uncertainty going; it will cost you your emotional health.