I am a Gynaecologist married to an engineer in may2008. I am pregnant 4months now, its second marriage for both; he has 2 children from the first marriage living with their mother. I want to know about my husband’s habit, he has pornography clips and pictures stored in his computer and he has the habit of flirting with women of all ages even school children. This is causing very great problems to me as he has WOMEN WAITING FOR HIM at their doors wearing the same coloured clothes as him. They are flirting even when I am by the side of him which is affecting my peace of mind, what should I do? My parents are old and I don’t want to go back to them with this problem, please help.

Almost all males are voyeur to some extent and some of them are addicted to it. These addicted males keep on watching, collecting and storing pornographic materials in different forms.
Discuss with him about his habit of flirting and clearly tell him that you do not like it. Habitual flirts are difficult to check but keep on showing your dislike for that at every possible occasion. If any female starts flirting with him in your presence then make them embarrass in a smart way (eg. “My husband is flirt but I never accept this from decent females”). Never ever think of flirting with other males as a part of revengeful act because he may take an advantage of your position and on long run going against your basic nature will create guilt, too.