This is unfortunate that you are a victim of sex abuse. You might have bleed because of rupture of hymen (thin skin within your vagina). However, this hymen can break even in absence of sexual activity. In other words, ruptured hymen is not sign of defloration. So do not worry about that. He won’t be able to make out that you had this, unless you will tell him. And finally, to me virginity is more psychological than physical. Psychological involvement breaks your virginity not single physical act without it.