Hello sir mine is a little strange story. I am from India. I am about to get married in November. This is a arrange marriage which has been fixed by my parents with my consent. The boy is very nice and sweet but he speaks less. Problems:- After my engagement he did not call me to chat I think as he is a shy guy so I should initiate, when I initiated then he did not speak much to me but it was his nature. to make him to call me I stopped calling him. When I stop calling him he starts calling me and starts showing his interest in me. Every thing was going wonderful then suddenly he disclose that he was having a very serious relationship in past which some how could not materialize. I told him that’s OK if you had an affair in past but it should not be in present. He said does it really matter when I am marrying you and not her. I said yes if you have that relationship I will not continue with you. Then I told him to take his mom’s swear and said that she is no more in his life. Every thing was OK. Then after sometime somehow that conversation started again and I reacted in a very bad way and cut the phone. Then suddenly I realized that he may break the relationship with me so I felt insecure and started chasing him badly, in fact very badly but he did not pick my phone for two days. From that very day he got to know that I am mad after him so he has started taking me for granted. He doesn’t call me, when I call him some time he picks up phone sometimes not. Please help me. Question-How should I make him to adore me and call me again like the way he used to do earlier? How can I determine if he is a genuine guy or not?. I believe that he is but he has stopped caring for me. Please help. I want him back the way he was.