Hello sir, I am Anupama working with a public sector bank and married since last 11 months. My husband works in the same bank and he is a gem of a person. Quite positive, helpful to others and no bad habits at all. But sometimes unknowingly he neglects me in public and whenever there is any argument or something which makes me sad, he reacts in a very strange manner. He starts beating himself, which scares me a lot and at that moment whether I speak anything or I keep quite to handle the situation he becomes more aggressive and start beating himself again. Please help.

He might be having some personality as well as adjustment issues with you. I need more details about your personal life to comment further on the issue.