Hello sir… During my search I find this site and gone through some questions and answers… after that I having lots of questions and answers in my mind… First of all sir, you are doing a great job… because these are the questions which many people can not discuss openly……. I am not aware about the medical terms and transactions, so use simple lay man language….. Now the questions I have in my mind are… when we are in college we heard some incidents happened in girls hostel like girls using carrot, veg, fingers to do it… is it true…. why it happen…. is it right or wrong….why that girls go at this level….will these things create any kind of problem or disease in the future or not…..when that thing is happen then they have to do it or to control it……… I also discuss these things with my mother but acc. to society its wrong but on the other side like when we thirsty we need water, may be when the things should out of control they do it…….. I also have lots of questions to ask…. but I think I should first wait for yours reply…. because the other question is link with your reply…….. Actually when gone through colleges then I heard it and want to find the answer….. because in future if I have a daughter then I could explain it….. because what I think…. if you have knowledge then only we face it…… Sir, if I be wrong any where or my views are incorrect… plz let me know…… I never discuss this kind of topic to anyone except my mother… only once… due to shyness……. Thank u sir………

It is called masturbation. Person gets sexual pleasure and some satisfaction out of the act. There is nothing wrong about it. It is natural (physiological) urge, both male and female will have. Females are using different objects to get stimulation. Objects vary from what you described to vibrators and artificial penis. Insertion of objects requires caution so that one would not cause injury to soft skin of genitalia (sex organ). You need to control your urge only in case of compulsion. (Means if you do not masturbate then you become restless and compulsorily you have to masturbate to feel relaxed). Otherwise, it is much better then having unsafe sex or sex with an irresponsible partner.
It is nice to know that you are discussing such issues with your mother. We should always give proper sex education to our children so that they can emerge as sexually healthy adults.