Dear Sir, I am manager and have a good family. I have two kids and a beautiful wife. I want to discuss a problem in my personal life. When my wife was pregnant, I had sexual relation with my female assistant. Now she wants to marry with me. I also love her but I don’t want to leave my family. What should I do to solve this problem?

You should have clarified this fact to begin with. Now you have to convince her that she had relation with a married man and it was her mistake to expect that you will leave your wife and family for her. She will definitely feel cheated but there is no other way. You love her as well as your family, you are ridding on two horses simultaneously, bound to have difficult ride.