I am married for 1 and 1/2 years. I am having an unsatisfied sex life. Other things being quite fine, but we are not having it properly. Recently the frequency had come down to 3 – 4 times a month and now we even don’t have it for more than a month. However, we do cuddle, hug each other while sleeping daily, and she really likes kissing me and holding me. The problem is my wife does not ever have the urge to have sex and feels a bit of unlikely, when I try. She is having a hypothyroid and is on medication, from almost a year. Docs told this might cause mood swings. Even before although she was normal, but was not open to this topic and is very reserve to talking, knowing or trying things. And one more thing, even when we do she never have orgasm and I always have quite sooner, this has also led to me doing oral to her for her orgasm. I am depressed. Please help.

Her lack of interest and orgasm might have deep psychological reasons, which required to be analyzed. You should meet good psychiatrist. Hypothyroidism is often associated with reduced sexual desire but if her current reports are normal (with medicines) then this possibility is least likely.