Dear Dr,I’m married since 2 years. It is an arranged marriage. Now we have a 4 months kid. My brother-in-law’s friend was also a friend to my wife. However, I am not sure how close they where. After marriage, I’m still in doubt whether my wife is still thinking about him as some of the characters in the television that appears really affecting my wife a lot. I had told my wife that I don’t like her talking to him, but now I don’t know whether she is still in touch with him. I’m very confused and its affecting my personal life a lot…please reply at times I used to think whether she is comparing me with that guy on the character front…

Having talking terms with brother’s friend is common. There is nothing fishy about that. You should not suspect until you have strong reasons to believe so. You should honestly discuss about what you are going through, with her. Rather then dictating her not to talk to him, try to explain her that this is hurting you, which in turn can spoil relationship.