You should have thought this before getting married. Anyway, now your husband should support you on this as you didn’t cared about your father’s love and got married against his wish. If you husband is truly loving you then he need to understand that you left your father for him and now it is his moral duty to help you to normalize your relationship with your father. He has snatched you from your parents and not your father. So if anyone has to let go or apologize then it is your husband and not your father.