Hello Sir. I have a girlfriend who is 6 years elder to me. She is a very nice person but I always wanted a beautiful wife. I am in this relation since 3 years but still I am not able to convince myself to commit for marriage. I do get attracted to beautiful women and fear that may not be happy if I marry her, as I always wanted a beautiful wife. Please help me to come to a conclusion.
If you are longing for a beautiful woman and she is not fitting in that frame then do not go ahead with her. Moreover, she is 6 yrs elder to you so she would be aging early then you and that can also cause beauty issues in future!
Sir My problem is that my mother her age is about 55 years old. I was married last 6 month back. Now condition is that my mother is blaming to my wife that she is torturing her by showing her bold eyes and now she is losing her temper and I want to know what is hidden in her mind (both in mother and in wife) through Hypnotism. So please suggest for the same.
This is a story of many families. Such issues between Daughter-in law and Mother- in law are very common. Best thing you can do here is keep yourself out of it. If you cannot do that then just keep listening to both and let them settle their issues by themselves. Men have to learn this art if they don’t want to get label of being partial to any of them!
Hi! I am now engaged. I have done sex with my wife. She is 16yrs.But she has not bleed during first time, so I guess that she might have done sex with others. She is also dancer, Is bleeding necessary when we do sex for the first time. I want to go for medical examination for her. Is there any medical report possible to tell me that she have done sex with others? Please write me early. I am very much tense. Thanks
It is a false belief that woman should bleed on her first intercourse, if she does not then she had it in past. Truth is, many women do not bleed on first sexual act, more so in case of dancers. You should not suspect that your wife must have had sexual relation with someone else because she has not bleed.
I got married before 6 months. But my sexual life is not going good. I’m not able to satisfy my husband properly, it creates frustration to me and to my husband also. During intercourse my lubrication cannot form, that’s why it becomes difficult to have an intercourse. Please suggest me what to do and how can I satisfy him?
Increase fore-play and use lubrication cream (vagi moist or k-y jelly).
You have already done whatever was needed. Now itâ€™s time to keep patience from your side. Just stop putting further efforts and give her time. If she initiates any dialogues in this direction then she is interested in saving her marriage otherwise you have to consider that she is not interested. You cannot keep on agreeing her demands like this otherwise she will be inclined to use such tactics in future also. You can also think of consulting psychiatrist for counselling.
Dear Sir, I married a guy 4 years back and he is software engineer. He took 25 lakhs as dowry and 200 gms of gold as a dowry. He got work visa for USA. He said he would take me to US once he settled down there. He didn’t come back again. He settled down there with some other female. Even after these many days I am still waiting for him, when we asked his parents about the same, they demanded some more money as a dowry. My father couldn’t afford that. He started abusing me, started abusing about my character to avoid me. My entire family is in deep distress. Recently we have filed a dowry harassment case, and then he started calling me from USA. Threatening me started posting lot of stuff in different online forums and abusing about my character. I am in deep confusion. what shuld I do? I feel like committing suicide. What to do now? Please advise. Crying like anything. My parents are suffering like anything. I am the only daughter to my parents. Please save my life.
These are pressurizing tactics. You should not succumb to it. Before taking back the dowry case you should ask your dowry amount back.
I want to know what the normal size of penis is. Iâ€™m having 16cm in diameter and 19cm in length. Is it enough to satisfy a girl?
Average penis length (flaccid/not erect): from 3.4 inches to 3.7 inches (8.6 cm to 9.3 cm). Average penis length (erect): from 5.1 inches to 5.7 inches (12.9 cm to 14.5 cm). Average penis girth (circumference when erect): from 3.5 inches to 3.9 inches (8.8 cm to 10 cm)
These numbers are obviously very different from the sizes we hear (and see) in adult movies, and even the kinds of numbers you read on line.
Female’s sexual satisfaction does not depend on penile length. It depends upon your love & affection for her, quality of intimate moments, warmth in relationship and lots other nonsexual factors.
Hello sir. I have written to you in the past as well regarding my brothers problem. My bhabhi is at her parents place and not willing to come back despite of lot of efforts from my brotherâ€™s side. You advised us to be patient as we have done our bit now if she is interested she will initiate the dialogue. I wish to tell you the development. My parents went to their place when they got to know that her uncle has expired that too we got to know it when my dad called her dad to enquire when is she coming back. They insulted my parents and said that we are not sending their daughter as your son has ill treated her. Her mother was very rude & adamant. Even the girl said she does not think that things can work out. And she has told her decision to her parents that she is not interested. It was actually a shock to my parents as instead of realizing their mistake they started to put allegations on us. My parents still said if you want we may talk to the counselor. She didnâ€™t give a positive response even after that. My parents came back & waited for their response, because now even we want to end this relation, but with mutual consent. They didnâ€™t call even after that. Then suddenly her father called and said lets meet up. They came to our place with their neighbors. Their neighbors initially said that the girl wants to come back provided she gets a good atmosphere at home. We still never said that we donâ€™t want to keep her. Her mother again started shouting & said bad words against my parents & brother .The conversation started heating up & whole situation became ugly again. My brother said I canâ€™t say anything before I speak to the girl .You should also not be forcing her as if she comes back on your pressure, she will not be happy and the scene shall be repeated. The way they blamed us, it didnâ€™t seem that they want to send their daughters back. We donâ€™t know what their agenda was. The final conclusion was that they shall again speak to her. She will come back only if she wants to. We know seeing the past trend that they will not call back now. We can also keep mum on the matter but our problem is that we want to get rid of that girl and they are not concluding the matter. From our end we canâ€™t say that we want a divorce as they will demand heavy alimony which we canâ€™t afford. Even if they ask for money we will somehow manage but she might not just come and not give divorce also. If we initiate this process of divorce with contest, my brothersâ€™ future will be ruined as it will take years to get the divorce. What should we do? Shall we take legal course of action against them or offer them separation with mutual consent. Please advice.
Ya, that is the only option left with you.
Hello sir, my relations with my wife is good but she always shows others that she is very sad with me. She also tells to her sister and mother. Please tell me the reason for this behaviour. Her mother and sister started complaining to us. Iâ€™m angry and my mind think negative reflect. Some time I feel my legs were not supporting to my body and my body gone cold. I keep on feeling negative and I canâ€™t sleep at night. I am not enjoying sex with my wife. plez help us thanks
You think that your relation with your wife is good but same may not be true for her. This may be the reason for her expressions of sadness. You should discuss this with her, rather than considering that your relation is good; on your own. As far as your negative thoughts, sleep problem, coldness of body and enjoyment in sexual relations is concerned; this can be symptoms of Depression. Take the help of psychiatrist.
Hello sir I am 21yrs old. I am a college student and I am suffering from strange ideas for last 3 months. I keep on getting dreams that Iâ€™m having an intercourse. Sometime I feel itâ€™s very embracing being a female.
This is normal and natural. Why you should feel embarrassing when only you know about it and there is nothing abnormal in it?! Just relax and stop worrying about it.