Sir I and my boyfriend were in relationship for last 1 year. He was my classmate in MSc. He proposed me for marriage and although the last 1 year we have been very good together. However, now for last 3 months there was a dispute for reason that I sent him sms that I will die without you so he got angry. But then he talked to me last month so I thought that everything will be fine now. But then I don’t know what happened, someone probably said to him that I was having a relationship with one of PhD student (he was very senior to us and even married) of department where we study. He not even discussed the matter with me. He didn’t allow me to clear the matter. I sent him many sms to explain but at that time he didn’t want to understand anything. He is saying that I have cheated upon him. My friends suggested not to talk to him right now as he will not understand. I don’t know what to do. I can’t live without him. He is the boy I have shared some personal relation for the very first time in my life. I want him in my life. We decided a lot about our married life but now he said that he will not marry me and that I have lost value in his life. This all is very depressing for me. Please tell me what I should do.

Though misunderstandings are part of the relationship, it is unfortunate. Convey him that you are ready to accept his decision but at the same time you want to explain the things for your satisfaction. This way probably he will be ready to listen to you. Explain your part honestly and wait for his decision rather then throwing yourself on him.