Sir I am a well educated lady of 33yrs from a metro city, my question is how many times can a person fall in love?? I m married since 13yrs and with 2 kids, after my 2nd kid I had a relationship with my brother in law whom I met just once a year , but being hurt by him I am again in a relationship with one of my students very young to me. But now I feel he is the one who understands me the best because my husband has never touched my heart and soul although he is a very good person and I respect him a lot. I would like to inform u that I am very much responsible as a mother, a wife and a daughter in law and have a very high social status but am sometimes thoughtful because of the self evaluation I get into. I ask myself whether I am characterless for being involved into three relationships at the same time. But sometimes I feel that being emotionally vacant since the start of my life has made me go this way. Can u just analyze the things and tell me whether I am right or wrong. For your information I would like to add I had sexual relationship with my brother in law for 3 yrs because my husband has never satisfied me, and in the new relationship with my student over the phone we are going the same way.