Sir, I am a 22 year boy. I have a complete masculine traits and good sexual tendency regarding ejaculation. I normally masturbate but my problem is that I always feel sexual attraction for the same sex (males). When I masturbate I do it by thinking about the physical contact with a male only just as a female thinks. I’m staying as a paying guest with my friend (who is a young boy of my age only) and I do feel sexual attraction for him. While sleeping sometime I feel like touching his hand, hug him or kiss him. I also felt as if I have love for him and I want him to love me also. It is not that this is something new problem as I always felt in such a way from the age of my puberty. Am I gay or is it some psychological problem. I have never disclosed this problem to anyone due to embarrassment. What should I do, is it natural? pls guide me!!!.

You may be physically male and psychologically female which results into same sex attraction. Homosexuals may call it normal but it cannot be called natural as hetrosexuality is nature’s law. You should consult Psychiatrist as it requires extensive analysis and therapy.