My husband has recently been diagnosed with prostate cancer. He had 1 surgery for it, but his psa increased. Now he is on medication. This is a traumatic phase of our life. I try my best to be of help to him and to the whole family, but I do fall short. I don’t know what to do. I love him very much

This is very unfortunate.  I understand how miserable you must be feeling. Falling short in your efforts is because of your helplessness in treating your loved one’s illness. However, you can increase your will power by accepting the illness and committing yourself for best possible efforts to support him. I’m sure with your internal strength, sincere commitment towards his care and medical advancement in cancer treatment will give good quality life to him. May God bless you all.