Woman can not love two man simultaneously (I’m not referring to flirting or faked love for some goals!). She will always remain confused and tense in such situation. Accept the fate of first relationship, wind it up. You have to take an initiative and firm step in that direction. Your male partner will not be able to initiate this; he may try to convince you for maintaining both relationships. Man can do it, woman can not….It’s natural gender difference!