I had a serious relation with a guy but we could not get married bcoz of family pressure. We decided to quit. But after 2 years we still have strong feelings for each other. The problem is that last year I entered into a new relationship and the guy loves me a lot but I am not able to respond in the same way and always think of my previous relationship. What should I do?

Woman can not love two man simultaneously (I’m not referring to flirting or faked love for some goals!). She will always remain confused and tense in such situation. Accept the fate of first relationship, wind it up. You have to take an initiative and firm step in that direction. Your male partner will not be able to initiate this; he may try to convince you for maintaining both relationships. Man can do it, woman can not….It’s natural gender difference!