Hi I am in love with a female from our office. She is married from the time we started loving each other. She was the first one who had initiated. Her behavior was really good in early days. I was very aloof, I mean never knew what happens in love but she use to ask me all things like we should talk, go out etc but after few days when I started enjoying it, she says she is not interested in all those things. I mean she is not that involved now. Do you feel she really loves me? Please help

She never loved you. She must have started relationship with her needs and now stepping back with her own reasons. You should understand that you were taken for a ride and now ride is over. Try to come out of it as she does not show interest any more.