Doctor, we got married 10 yrs back. Our marriage was not a happy one. However, after so many crisis we go better relation. Once I went to my mothers place and when I came back to him, I caught him peeping another building; watching bathing a woman. We had fight, he asked me to forgive, and I did. I thought might be I was not there, he started this thing and he will stop this. We were transferred to another place; again, I caught him watching another woman’s boobs as she was washing the clothes on stone. Again, we had fight. At last, I forgave him. He did so many things like that silly. If he talks simple thing with another woman in absence of me, he hides from me. We have a very great sex life but still if he gets the time to watch ftv and he masturbates. After watching porn sites, he masturbates instead to have sex with me. Moreover, he pretends like feeling sleepy. I just want to know what this is. Why he does this? As he will always says I have a very sexy partner but still he is doing it!

From your description what I guess is, he might be having voyeurism. It is one kind of sexual deviation, in which person gets sexual pleasure by viewing woman’s sexual parts, erotic pictures, movies etc. As he is avoiding sexual act with you (even though he calls you very sexy partner) he requires treatment, if he agrees. You have to consult Psychiatrist for this.