Dear sir, I am writing this on behalf of one of my Friend. She was having affair for last 2 years but just now, the guy denied her. Both are living in a same area. My friend was ready for marriage and she manage her family members after a long trouble but boy couldn’t go ahead because of his family. His parents have somewhat orthodox type of thinking. This happened one month back. Now problem is that even after doing all these things, She still remembers him and can’t forget him. She also doesn’t want to get married. I tried to explain her to forget all those things and look forward and to get married but she is not ready and she is not feeling comfort with her family because of past, she did with his family members. How can I convince her? Please reply……

Forgetting is an automatic process and time plays vital role in that. You can fasten her forgetting by avoiding discussions and advising on her past. Just be there and support her. Listen what she express and motivate her for accepting the reality and going on in life. Breakups always create feeling of rejection in dumped partner and one will take some time to digest the fact.