I am 23 and I like a guy (23).He says that he needs time. Initially I bugged him to accept my love, by blackmailing him that I will die without him. He accepted me in his life. He has a sister and an elder brother who are to be married before him. I am elder daughter in my home. I am being forced to marry. And this guy says that he likes me and goes out with me. But does not promise a marriage with me. Moreover he says that he is not matured still. He keeps saying that I am fat whenever he sees a skinny girl. He keeps saying that I initially blackmailed him and that’s why he is causing all this pain to me. I said that I am ready for a break-up. But he does not let me go. What should I do?

Relationship, started on basis of blackmailing and has an element of revenge (“He keeps saying that I initially blackmailed him and that’s why he is causing all this pain to me”) is never going to be healthy. Better accept that it is not going to be worked out in mutually satisfying way. It is better to come out and you may have to explain this fact to him, probably he may agree to break up (otherwise, the way you forced yourself on him, you can also walk away like that, for betterment of both of you!!)